Narcissists do not think like we do; don’t cast your pearls before the swine as the scripture says. Use ‘Grey Rock’ and other techniques to navigate your interactions with your narc(s),… start to develop an exit strategy, you will eventually need to part ways with the narc or face serious consequence.
Psalms 82:4 Rescue the poor and needy: Deliver them out of the hand of the wicked.